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A. IDENTIFY a GOAL

2. B.Think though the steps to be taken
   

3. C.List goal & then alternatives to it
   

D. Fill out form ➼

For alternatives, respond to each statement with a number score, based on ‘value points’ column. 

MAXIMUM POINTS - IF you strongly agree, or if the statement is completely accurate

LESSER POINTS (assign proportionately) IF you disagree, or if it’s not completely true

Add up totals for each alternative to identify the best choice