CLASS # 8 -  CONFUSION  (C)

   I. In Childhood

     A. Denial

     B. Distorted Info

     C. Multiple Meanings

     D. Double Messages

II. In Adulthood

     A. Express & Perpetuate it  

     B. Recovering from (C)

     C. In a new ‘universe’

CLASS # 7a - RESCUING (R)

   I. Childhood Sources

  II. Present Day Motivations

II. What is Rescuing

      A. What?   (generated by us)

      B. Who?     (set off by others)

      C. When?   (circumstance)

      D. How?     (examples)

4. IV.Consequences
   

     A. To Us                                              

     B. To Others

     C. With Healthy People

# 7b - HELPING   (H)

   I. Prerequisites for (H)

      A. About Us

      B. About Others

      C. Q & A before (H)

      D. Do nothing if...

  II. Circumstances for (H)

      A. When?

      B. Results

         1.In Us

           a. Healthy Discomfort

           b. Healthy Comfort

        2. In Them

           a. Unhealthy

           b. Recovering

CLASS #9 - LONELINESS  (L)

   I. In Childhood

     A. From the Family

     B. From Society

II. In Adulthood

    A. Before Recovery

    B.  Early Recovery

    C.  More Recovery

    D. Ongoing Recovery

CLASS # 11a -  RAGE  (R)

   I. How Rage Develops    

     A. The ‘Natural’ Child

     B. Hurtful Parents

     C. Damage to Natural Child

  II. Rage in Adulthood

      A. Obvious Rage

      B. Covert Rage

      C. Fuel for Rage

#11b. - ANGER   (A)

  

   I. Healthy Anger (H.A.)

      A. Definition

      B. Major Components

      C. Healthy (A) - it’s value

      D. Expressions of (H.A.)

  II. In Recovery

      A. Facing Old Rage

      B. Continuing Process

CLASS # 12 - RECOVERY  (R)

    I.   It takes Time

   II. (R) Is slowed down by...

  III. (R) Is about Opposites

  IV. (R) Is cumulative

  V. What (R) IS & is NOT

CLASS # 10 - FANTASY  (F)

   I. (F) As False Beliefs
      A. Definitions

      B. Origins

      C. Why Cling to them?

      D. Positions

      E. The Price   ( - - )

      F. The Payoff ( - + )

      G. Recovery  ( + + )

  II. (F) as Mental Pictures

      A. In All children

      B. In Dysfunctional Families

      C. In Adulthood

         1. Negative Uses
         2. Positive Uses

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